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Wednesday, November 23, 2016

Flying With a Baby: Not Hell, But Not Far From It (Excerpt)

I have a dirty, sweaty, cranky, sleep-deprived baby tethered to me via the wonders of the Ergobaby 360, a $150 baby carrier that transforms ordinary human parents into kangaroos and gives customers full use of their arms. I’m using my free limbs to lug an overstuffed diaper bag and lead a frantic Boston Terrier, Judith, through the San Diego airport.*

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Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Dear Marathon Director: About my Viagra usage ...

One of Valium Vickie's most-valued contributors, Kenneth Larson (find Mr. Larson's work here and here), recently had a detailed email correspondence with the director of a well-known marathon. Below is the word-for-word transcript of that correspondence.* *Note: The name, race and even the organization have been changed to protect the dignity of those involved.




From: Kenneth Larson [mailto:XXXXXXXX@XXXXXX.com]
Sent: Monday, May 09, 2016 12:13 PM
To: XXX@XXXXXX.org
Subject: Question about upcoming the annual Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon



I really want to take part in this year's Half-Marathon, but I have one small concern. Is this the right email for questions (it's a medical question)?

Sincerely,
Kenneth Larson

RE: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 




Tricky Dick's 

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5/9/2016

You
You replied on 5/10/2016 9:52 AM.
Yes, this is the correct email.

What can I help you with?

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo
Associate Director
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Tricky Dick's Center for Sexual Awareness
2242, Red State, TX 48691
(P) XXX XXX XXXXX Ext XXX (F) XXX XXX XXXXX

All great journeys begin with a single 'Dick.'

From: Kenneth Larson [mailto:XXXXXXXXX@XXXXXXXXX.com]
Sent: Tuesday, May 10, 2016 6:52 AM
To: Tricky Dick's  <XXXXX@XXXXXXXXXX.org>
Subject: Re: Question about upcoming 
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Patrice,

Like I said, I have a concern about a medical condition -- something that actually impacted my performance in the last half marathon I ran (The Philadelphia half-marathon). Here's the issue, it's an issue I'm extremely sensitive and self-conscious about, so please keep that in mind: Currently, I take Viagra to treat my hypertension. If you think this is some type of a joke, here's a medical article that links to a well-respected study confirming the use of this drug for some individuals with hypertension. Now, would you be comfortable answering my question, Patrice, or is there someone else I need to speak to about the situation?

Kenn

RE: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 




Tricky Dick's

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5/10/2016

You
You replied on 5/10/2016 11:20 PM.
Ask me what you need to

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo
Associate Director
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Tricky Dick's Center for Sexual Awareness
2242, Red State, TX 48691
(P) XXX XXX XXXXX Ext XXX (F) XXX XXX XXXXX

All great journeys begin with a single 'Dick.'

From: Kenneth Larson [mailto:XXXXXXXXXXX@XXXXXX.com]
Sent: Tuesday, May 10, 2016 8:21 PM
To: Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon <XXXXX@XXXXXXX.org>
Subject: Re: Question about upcoming 
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Patrice,

Like I said, I'm extremely embarrassed about my treatment/condition, so please keep that in mind with your response. I've always been an avid runner, but this heart condition has been challenging and I've tried several treatments, but the Viagra is far and away the most effective. During the Philadelphia half marathon, I must have become erect, an erection no doubt caused a combination of my medication (Viagra for hypertension) and the intensity of race. I was so focused on trying to beat my personal time that I didn't notice, but apparently somebody was offended and contacted the police about "an aroused man making a scene and disrupting the race." I was stopped mid-race by the police and, although it was easy enough to explain the situation to the officers, I was mortified. Plus, the stoppage destroyed my time (and I was on pace for a personal best). Look, I know this is an usual situation, but I wanted to let you know about my condition and see if there was anything that could be done to guarantee I didn't have a repeat of the Philadelphia incident at the Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon. Any suggestions would be welcome.

Sincerely,
Kenn

RE: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 




Tricky Dick's

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5/11/2016

You
You replied on 5/11/2016 10:49 PM.
Hi Kenn

Wow, that had to be pretty frustrating for you as a runner.

Are you ok with me getting your bib number and notifying the police and radio volunteers of your medical condition so that no one stops you in case it happens again?
I think if they have your bib number and are aware, they can address anyone who expresses a concern right away without stopping you.

Let me know if you are comfortable with that or if you have any other suggestions.

Patrice

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo
Associate Director
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Tricky Dick's Center for Sexual Awareness
2242, Red State, TX 48691
(P) XXX XXX XXXXX Ext XXX (F) XXX XXX XXXXX

All great journeys begin with a single 'Dick.'

RE: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 




Tricky Dick's

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5/11/2016


You replied on 5/11/2016 10:49 PM.

From: Kenneth Larson [mailto:XXXXXXXX@XXXXXXX.com]
Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2016 7:50 PM
To: Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon <XXXXXX@XXXXXXXX.org>
Subject: Re: Question about upcoming 
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Patrice,

First off, I sincerely want to thank you for listening to my concerns and taking them seriously. I was actually very nervous about divulging my situation, and I thought you'd either openly ridicule me or not take the situation seriously. Besides my therapist and my doctor, I haven't been able to talk to anyone about this.

I am absolutely OK with 
with you getting my bib number and notifying the police and radio volunteers of your medical condition -- and I think that's a very good idea. Thanks so much for taking the time to think about some workarounds for this situation.

And yes, Patrice, the situation was extremely frustrating. See, I've always thought of myself as a runner -- it's who I am; it's part of my identity. This heart condition/erection side-effect issue has really been a challenge for me. During my research, I've discovered that Viagra is increasingly being used to treat hypertension in middle-age adult males -- specifically middle-age adult males with athletic lifestyles. Were you aware of this in any way, Patrice? I'm very curious to see what the public at large knows about this medical issue.

Based on that research, it's not too much of a stretch to envision a time in the near future when there will be several male competitors in an event like the Tricky Dick's Rock Hard marathon running and competing with the full-on erection side effect that stems from their treatment -- and that can potentially be an issue with spectators. I think race organizers should be aware of this likely scenario.


Sincerely,
Kenn

P.S. I didn't mention this in the previous email because I was very embarrassed about the situation, the police stoppage wasn't the only unfortunate incident during the previous race.  I figure I can tell you since you do genuinely seem to want to help me with this issue. During the half marathon, a group of teenager boys or young men in their early 20s must've noticed my medical erection. One of the boys yelled, "Look that old dude's got a boner." Then, the leader of the group, a portly kid with horrible acne, ran right up to me, said, "Here's some food for your boner you big creep!" and threw a Wendy's King Frostie right at my crotch area. The Frostie exploded all over my pants, and I ran like that until I was stopped by the police (like I mentioned in the previous email). Everything about that day was beyond mortifying for a grown man who is so passionate about competitive running, and I seriously considered giving up the sport altogether after that day -- one of the worst, most embarrassing days of my life.

RE: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 




Tricky Dick's

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5/12/2016

You
Good morning Kenn

No, I hadn’t heard of that medical treatment before and its effects on runners.
I hope the same thing doesn’t happen to you here. But we are dealing with people who can be very insensitive at times, so we can just hope for the best!!
I will pass on the information to the people that need to know.

Good luck running on Saturday.

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo
Associate Director
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Tricky Dick's Center for Sexual Awareness
2242, Red State, TX 48691
(P) XXX XXX XXXXX Ext XXX (F) XXX XXX XXXXX

All great journeys begin with a single 'Dick.'

RE: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 




Tricky Dick's

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5/12/2016

You
You replied on 6/8/2016 4:44 PM.
One more thing…

It is suggested that you wear compression shorts underneath your running shorts.
Also, bring something from your doctor to have on you…just in case

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo
Associate Director
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Tricky Dick's Center for Sexual Awareness
2242, Red State, TX 48691
(P) XXX XXX XXXXX Ext XXX (F) XXX XXX XXXXX

All great journeys begin with a single 'Dick.'

From: Kenneth Larson [mailto:XXXXXXXX@XXXXXXX.com]
Sent: Wednesday, June 08, 2016 1:45 PM
To: Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon <XXXXXX@XXXXXXXX.org>
Subject: APOLOGY ATTEMPT -- Re: Question about upcoming 
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon


Ms. Patrice,

I have been the victim of a hacking situation and none of the emails below were sent from me. Please let me know if you've received this, as I feel a compelling need to explain the issue and see that you receive the proper apology.

Kenneth Larson


From: Kenneth Larson [mailto:XXXXXXXX@XXXXXXX.com]
Sent: Wednesday, June 08, 2016 5:34 PM
To: Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon <XXXXXX@XXXXXXXX.org>
Subject: 
APOLOGY ATTEMPT -- Re: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Do not send any other emails.
You did not participate in our race this year

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo
Associate Director
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Tricky Dick's Center for Sexual Awareness
2242, Red State, TX 48691
(P) XXX XXX XXXXX Ext XXX (F) XXX XXX XXXXX

All great journeys begin with a single 'Dick.'

Re: APOLOGY ATTEMPT -- Re: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo (XXX@XXXX.org)
Ms. Patrice,

That's what I'm trying to explain. I DIDN'T participate in your race, and I DIDN'T send you those emails. I'm not sure how he did it (this is an account I only use for functions), but my son hacked into my email and has been playing a number of pranks. He's been punished, but I believe he owes it to both of us to send you a sincere apology over the phone. If you'd like, I can explain further. Or, if you'd prefer, we can set up a time for him to call and make his apology over the phone. I sincerely apologize for any inconvenience this has caused you. My son is not a bad kid, and this behavior is completely out of character.

Sincerely,
Kenn


RE: APOLOGY ATTEMPT -- Re: Question about upcoming Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Half Marathon 




Laura Winniford-Hodgins

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6/10/2016

You
I am not interested. Please cease and desist in contacting me or I will be sending this to our Tricky Dick's attorney

Patrice Odette Csonger-Dalfo
Associate Director
Tricky Dick's Rock Hard Marathon

Tricky Dick's Center for Sexual Awareness
2242, Red State, TX 48691
(P) XXX XXX XXXXX Ext XXX (F) XXX XXX XXXXX



All great journeys begin with a single 'Dick.'